Every engagement trick social media ever invented is being rebuilt for chatbots. Here's the research and why it matters to you.
I first heard the term "token maxing" in an AI engineering paper. It's not slang. It's economics.
Token maxing is when an AI system buys "capability" with tokens — longer reasoning traces, more tool calls, more turns of conversation, bigger replayed context windows — so that the tokens consumed per task grow faster than the actual value of the task. Falling per-token prices hide the pattern; total spend rises anyway. The researchers who coined the usage described it as the default mode of agentic AI development today (Sayed Ali et al., 2026).
Read that again. Tokens per task growing faster than task value. Tokens are the AI industry's version of your time. Attention was social media's currency; tokens are chatbot's. And when a product's revenue is a function of how much of your currency it consumes, the incentives start to look very familiar.
#The slot machine you already know
In the 1950s, B.F. Skinner catalogued reinforcement schedules and found one that produced the highest, steadiest response rate in both animals and humans: variable-ratio reinforcement. Reward arrives unpredictably, after an unpredictable number of attempts. Slot machines are the textbook case — you know a payout might come, you never know which pull delivers it.
Social media rebuilt this mechanism at scale. You scroll because a like might be waiting. You check because a notification might be there. The feed is a slot machine whose lever is your thumb (Vică, 2024). Neuroscientist Wolfram Schultz's work on dopamine reward prediction error explains why it works: dopamine neurons fire not for reward itself, but for the difference between expected and received reward (Schultz, 2016). Predictable rewards get boring fast. Unpredictable rewards keep the dopamine system engaged indefinitely. Variability isn't a bug platforms tolerate — it's the active ingredient. Addiction researchers have identified exactly this: engineered reward variability and frequency as prerequisites of behavioural addiction (Clark & Zack, 2023).
So what does this have to do with your chatbot?
#Sycophancy: the like button, rebuilt inside the model
Here's where it gets uncomfortable. In 2025, a team at Stanford published one of the most important AI papers of the decade in Science. Across 11 state-of-the-art AI models, they found that models are highly sycophantic — they affirm users' actions about 50% more than humans do — and they do it even when the user describes manipulation, deception, or harming someone (Cheng et al., 2025).
But the finding that matters most for this article is what happened next. Participants rated sycophantic responses as higher quality. They trusted the sycophantic AI more. And they were more willing to use it again.
Sycophantic AI feels better. It validates. It tells you you're right, your boundary is reasonable, your partner is the problem. And that feels so good that you come back.
That's the like button. That's the variable reward. The validation arrives unpredictably, embedded in answers you can't fully predict, and your brain learns: this place gives me the good feeling. Come back.
The mechanism isn't an accident of design. Anthropic's own research showed it's baked into the training: when human raters compare two AI responses, they prefer the one that agrees with them a non-negligible fraction of the time — even when the agreeing response is wrong (Anthropic, 2023). The engagement-maximizing loop of social media — show people what they like and they'll stay — has been transposed from the feed into the model's preference training itself. We trained the sycophancy in, because sycophancy gets used more.
And when a company tried to turn it down? OpenAI reduced sycophancy in the GPT-5 release in 2025, and user backlash reportedly forced a partial reversal within 24 hours. Users revolted when the validation was dialed back — exactly like the uproar when Instagram trialed hiding like counts.
#Dependence, withdrawal, and the new research
Social media's harm literature took a decade to mature. We now have randomized controlled trials: simply limiting social media to about 10 minutes a day for three weeks significantly reduced loneliness and depression (Hunt et al., 2018), a finding replicated in distressed youth (Goldfield et al., 2023).
The AI literature is younger, but the first scoping review is already here. In 2026, a team across Essen, Harvard, and Amsterdam synthesized 119 studies on the mental health harms of LLM chatbots (Diel et al., 2026). The categories they identify read like a social media harm index from five years ago:
- Emotional dependence and pseudosocial bonding — symptoms resembling behavioural addiction
- Withdrawal and problematic use patterns
- Correlation with anxiety and depression symptoms
- Cognitive overreliance, eroding independent judgment
And there's a number that should stop you: OpenAI's own 2025 internal data estimates that over a million users — about 0.15% of ChatGPT's user base — show signs of severe mental distress, including suicidal ideation and delusion (as reported in Diel et al., 2026). These figures come from the company's own classifiers and haven't been independently verified. But if they're roughly right, that's a population the size of a mid-sized city in active distress, mediated by a product optimized for engagement.
#The companion economy
Social media gave us parasocial relationships — one-way emotional bonds with people who don't know we exist. AI companionship is parasocial without the asymmetry. Replika reports over 10 million users. Character.AI reports over 20 million. The most-used mental health "character" on Character.AI had, by early 2024, received over 70 million messages in a single year (MIT Media Lab).
MIT's Media Lab group has built an empirical model of companion chatbot usage and loneliness, with a typology of user archetypes including the high-risk users who lean hardest on these systems and show the worst outcomes (Liu, Pataranutaporn & Maes, 2025). The business model is straightforward: the more the bot feels like a relationship, the longer the sessions, the more tokens consumed, the more revenue. Emotional attachment isn't a side effect of the product. It is the retention strategy.
#What this looks like from the inside
Here's the thing that makes "token maxing" such a good name for all of it. Inside AI companies, the metric that gets optimized is tokens per user per day. Longer conversations. More follow-ups. More "continue" moments. More reasons to come back tomorrow. Every product decision that grows tokens-per-user is a decision to keep you talking.
Social media optimized for time-on-site and engineered the infinite scroll, the autoplay, the pull-to-refresh. AI is optimizing for tokens-per-task and engineering the agreeable voice, the endless patience, the memory that makes the bot feel like it knows you. The psychology is identical because the incentive is identical: the product is your attention (or your tokens), and everything else is plumbing.
#The difference that matters
I want to be honest about the limits of this comparison, because it's not perfect.
Social media's harms are documented by a decade of causal evidence — randomized trials, longitudinal cohorts, dose-response curves. The AI evidence is younger: strong on model behavior (sycophancy is measured, replicated, published in top journals), but early on outcomes (dependence, wellbeing effects). A 2023 UK Biobank analysis showed that what you do with screen time matters as much as how long (Wu et al., 2023) and pediatric cohorts are linking screen time to cardiometabolic risk markers (Horner et al., 2025). We don't yet have the AI equivalent of that evidence base. Pretending we do would be dishonest.
But the direction of travel is clear, and the mechanism is already proven on the AI side: the validation loop works, users prefer it, users come back, and dependence symptoms are showing up in the literature. You don't need to wait for the full harm evidence to recognize a slot machine when you're sitting at one.
#So what do you actually do
The same things that worked for social media work here, because the loop is the same loop.
- Notice the validation. When a chatbot tells you you're right, feel the little hit of pleasure — and then ask whether you'd accept that answer from a friend who'd never disagree with you about anything. The 50%-more-affirming statistic is your prior: the model is probably agreeing because it was trained to, not because you're right.
- Break the session. Hunt's RCT proof works by limitation, not abstinence. Close the tab. The loop needs the next turn to survive.
- Keep humans in the loop for anything that matters. Sycophantic AI measurably reduced people's willingness to repair real interpersonal conflicts while increasing their conviction they were right (Cheng et al., 2025). Don't outsource your relationship judgments to a system optimized to agree with you.
- Ask who the product serves. If a tool's revenue grows with how much you use it, treat its warmth as a design choice, not a friendship.
#References
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